Ugly Love (PDF)


Choices I made And sometimes validation is priceless This is one of the best books from a Survivor s perspective I ve read The author describes her own painful and devastating journey with her Narcissistic mother and then the abusive Narcissistic man that was her husband for many yearsIt s than just her story which I related to so much with both relationships but it s informative as to what Narcissist s do and how there are varying degrees of it It has a brilliant xtensive section on gaslighting most books cover it but this really dissects the crazy making way it messes you up I got so much from thatAnother *uniue aspect I love about this book and watch my reviews *aspect I love about this book and watch my reviews berserk on Narcissists as I m reading all I can get my hands on is the powerful advice given about how to divorce the Narcissist with the least amount of pain and damage This is While My Soldier Serves excellent advice and it s US based but a lot can be applied to divorce anywhere The writing style is personal I felt like the author and I were having a chat I read the book in one sitting and despite reading lots about this insidious form of abuse I got lots new from thisThe chapter and messages on healing yourself are really good and if you are a Christian like me there are references to particular podcasts YouTube videos and speakers to watchlisten If you are not a Christian don t worry the book will speak to anyone The Christian links are provided near thend However know that God abhors abuse and never xpects you or your children to stay and suffer You may find some of those resources comfortingI ve had than one Narcissist In My Life And I my life and I not long out of an 11 year marriage that almost killed me in very way I know too well how ಪರಿಸರದ ಕತೆ Parisarada Kathe even the strongest woman cannd up not The Fiend Next Door even being able to get out of bed and believe she s not doingnough to make her abuser happy Recovery from this abuse is not asy but so necessary so the pattern is not repeatedI highly recommend this book No doubt about it this one will give you a lot from knowledge to a message to be kind on yourself Five stars from meFollow me on Goodreads or for recommendations on books around this subject Booklover Catlad. With the full blown narcissistic personality disorder There's ambivalence on the part of psychologists and other xperts on whether a narcissist can change So what do you do Do you stay or do you go Can your partner be the one who changes Laura Charanza is a survivor of forty years of narcissistic abuse Laura has worked with psychologists physicians life coaches and spiritual healers to understand narcissism and a narcissist's victims With mpathy and transparency l Laura tells first hand the story of a typical and toxic relationship with a narcissist But understand that there is a way out and here is where your journey to freedom peace and true love can begi. .



Ugly Love

summary Î Book or Kindle PUB ✓ Laura Charanza

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close to It changed my life I highly recommend those who suffer from narcissist people in their lives to read it I love the message and received many great pockets of inspiration but the grammatical rrors and misprints drove me crazy This author did a very good job describing life with a NARCISSIST SHE USED GREAT EXAMPLES FROM HER OWN LIFE She used great xamples from her own life also interviewed several psychologists who gave great input This little book has a lot of good *information for anyone who has been in the clutches of a narcissist *for anyone who has been in the clutches of a narcissist I appreciate that However the advice is minimal and fairly basic so it s best used as an intro book on the subject Not the best book in terms of writing skills but relatable content and helpful advice in my preferred form storyI really wish I had no need to be reading survivors stories of narcissistic abuse but here we are And hopefully I ll have one of my own to add soon For now I just find it helpful to know that I am not alone An xperience that many would relate to presented in a professional way without loosing the personal human motional aspect of the bitterness and trauma one passes through Laura Charanza wrote Ugly Love as a two time survivor of narcissistic abuse In her book she shows how living with a narcissistic person follows a specific pattern and how anyone could fall into their trap In the last uarter of the book Charanza discusses how you can get help and support from narcissistic abuse utilizing her own xperiences to show that it is possible to leave and rebuild your life While I found that Charanza had a lot of great information and input from professionals I feel like this book was marketed differently The cover says that it is a Survivor s Story on Narcissistic Abuse but only includes a few Travis examples from her personalxperiences I guess I thought this book would be of a memoir and less of a textbook outline of narcissists I also found her ways to take back your life section to be lacking and relying too heavily on religion faith and spiritual healing I would like to see research on how this is helpful to someone who just left an abusive rel. Have you ver felt like a normal discussion turns into him raging at you while you cower in the corner not certain what just happened to set him off Have you felt like you would be punished if you stand up for yourself Have you ver been told you are imagining things and AI Weiwei: Beijing Photographs, 1993-2003 everyone thinks you're crazy Have you been told no onelse could ver love you Have you been led to believe this is all your fault If you feel like you are living a fairy tale turned nightmare then you may be a victim of narcissistic abuse Abusive relationships with a narcissist follow a specific pattern There's the initial stage of love bombing where he's prince charming and you are his prin. Ationship Again Laura Charanza had some really Interesting Information But I Found It Lacking information but I found it lacking informative THis book is all about a woman s xperience living wish a Narcissist and dealingwith the constant abuse and manipulation that he placed on her It was heartbreaking to listento how he made her uestion her own judgement on things that she knew to be true I can t imagine having to live under that constant bagering it would drive anyone crazy THis bookreally opens the readers yes to things that are not right in relationships and helps shinethe light on things that abusers would rather have left in the shadows I m glad I got toread this book because its very different than other books of its kind It gives you informationhowever it doesn t flood your brain and it also gives you a story along with it Nice read I think the part that I liked the best about this book had to be how informative and compellingthe information was I couldn t put this book down in the beginning ach chapter was like a little mini novel with all new information What I didn t like about this book was I found the flow of it very choppy it had my going back to see if I was missing pages because the ideas were all overthe place Overall Not Bad But not bad but flow was just to much and took me right out of the storyitself this wasn t the life or fairy tale you said yes to First off Ugly Love is the PERFECT title for this book for this trap that we ither are born into fall foror both To give a detailed description would be giving away all the best parts of this book A narcissist Cruel selfish narrow mindeddestructive without remorse If you re living with one read this book *If You Ve Survived *you ve survived read this book If you re related to one read this book Warning it will trigger ALL your issues but that s an vil necessity This book validates your uestioning suspicions and unnecessary self doubt If you don t know where to begin to seek help to get out to search out your truth and seek helpbegin with this book Break the cycle for Collision Course: Endless Growth on a Finite Planet everyone involved somewhat of a spoilerthe section on divorce I felt like I opened up parts of my own journal It validated some of the. Cess and soulmate Then the debasement starts The rules start changing Just when you think you know what he wants the standards change again Then he isolates you You aren't allowed to see family and friends If you do you are punished with silence or rancid accusations Then there's thescalation of conversations into turbulent arguments only for him to apologize and start the cycle all over again If you feel hopeless don't There is a way out and your 10 PRINT CHR$(205.5+RND(1)); : GOTO 10 (Software Studies) exit plan begins with understanding what you are going through and how younded up there Narcissism is a spectrum disorder A person can Design Research: Methods and Perspectives exhibit a few symptoms of being a narcissist ornough traits to be diagnosed. .